Sep 25 2016

Weekend Hunger!

Weekend Hunger is about finding an image or two, along with a short writing ( 50+ words) that illustrates and describes your hunger. I’d love to hear what makes you hungry. Submit your own image/images or image/images from Tumblr (with credits) by Friday 5pm PST.  Show me what makes you hungry on a lazy weekend!

 

Solo

Distance creates desire.

Well penned words ensure the desire is stroked properly.

Intuition has taught the ears of your spirit to pay attention to the vibration in my soul.

Intention fuels the words you form that paint a picture in my mind and dance sensuously through my body reminding me of your touch.

Triumph is my hand naturally between my legs feeling the heat of your steel veined cock sliding along my slit as my fingers pretend they are yours.

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Sep 19 2016

Finding the One who Blends.

This post is a follow up from two previous post: ‘The Virgin. Unlocking Feminine Power.’ & ‘No, I won’t have Your Baby. Dating at Mid-Life.’

In ‘The Virgin. Unlocking Feminine Power’ I mentioned a quote by Monica Sjoo where he explains: “Ancient moon priestesses were called virgins. ‘Virgin’ meant not married, not belonging to a man – a woman who was ‘one-in-herself’. The very word deriving from a Latin root meaning strength, force, skill; and was later applied to men: virle. That Ishtar, Diana, Astarte, Isis were all called virgin, which did not refer to sexual chastity, but sexual independence.

In ‘No, I won’t have Your Baby. Dating at Mid-Life. I talked about how at mid-life dating is very different. No longer are you looking to build a life with someone. You have built a life and through unexpected changes and life lessons are comfortable with who you are and have become. Now dating is about finding someone whose life BLENDS well with yours. And together that blending widens the border of both of your lives.

BUT: How do we go about attracting that someone who will blend well into our lives? I do not have the magic blueprint or sure fire method to guarantee you’ll find that someone but I have been working on myself for some time and feel I have picked up a few nuggets of truth and possibly magic along the way that I’ve been applying to my life that I’d like to share.

 

  1. Be brutally honest with yourself. Understand your strengths and weaknesses. Understand where you are quirky. We all have those little habits we’ve picked up along the way. Some are adorable and some really need to go. Are you open to change the things that have tore apart relationships in the past?
  2. Take a good hard look at what you are saying you want in a partner. Don’t be all ‘fairy tale’ about it. Quiet your soul and spirit and calm your mind. Let your soul bring up the things that really minister to your heart. Then write down the qualities and characteristics you are looking for. What would make your heart truly sing and keep singing?
  3. Are you the woman that potential partner is looking for? Would he recognize you now as that woman? If not then write down the areas you still need to work on. Sometimes we can get so focused on who we want to attract in our lives that we forget to look at ourselves. Then we wonder why that partner we want doesn’t see us.
  4. Live in the now! This is big! Once you have written down the qualities and characteristics of who you are looking for.. relax! Concentrate on you and your life. Continue to grow and be ‘one-in-yourself’. I’m a great believer in the Law of Attraction. We do attract into our lives those people we believe in our subconscious we deserve. By living in the now…being present in your life each day…your life becomes full of unexpected moments. You are open to the magic each day holds for you.
  5. Date!  What I mean is be open to meeting people! A date doesn’t have to mean anything more than meeting a new friend. Meet people with ‘No Expectations’. You are on a journey of discovering yourself and how to relate to others. You’re on a treasure hunt and finding what works in your life and what doesn’t. When you date with no expectations of anything coming of it…meaning you’re not jumping ahead 5 months down the road and wondering how his life will effect yours….you are free in your head and emotions to let life unfold on it’s own to reveal if there is a blending here for you both.
  6. Be aware of negative self talk! Stop saying there are ‘No more good people left in the world. All the good ones are taken.’ Stop..please stop! Do you have an underlying belief that you are not wanted?. Expect to find love and be loved! Lots of people find good partners everyday. Believe that you are worthy of a good relationship.
  7. Watch out for concentrating on ‘The One’. There are many choices available of potential partners. Don’t focus on just one person. Let the energy and natural flow of your life bring your potential partners to you. Which brings me back to Live in the Now and No Expectations. Take the pressure off of yourself and enjoy your life daily. You’ll find more people attracted to you.
  8. Ask yourself if you’re ready to have someone in your life. Is your life welcoming? Is there room? Be a creator of the kind of love and relationship you desire in your life. Remove the barriers you’ve come across and move forward with intent believing that you were born to give and receive great love.
  9. Watch out for bad familiar patterns from your past dating/relationship life. Do you have a tendency to be attracted to people who seem familiar but not necessarily trustworthy? Learn to value secure people in your life. Trust your instincts.
  10. Men are looking for a woman who can bring more peace and joy into his life. Really work on yourself and then find a man who has done the same. Remember like attracts like! If you are still attracting the wrong men for you then go back to point 1.!

These 10 points work no matter what blend of gender the relationships takes. The heart has no gender.

As a professional woman I know how to function in my masculine power in the market place. But that same logic and analytical thinking does not work when seeking a relationship that will blend well with my life. I’m learning how to trust my instincts and intuition. How to let the feminine power within me lead when it comes to issues of the heart. Believe me I have found it to be a more natural and exciting way to journey.

There is no logic when it comes to the heart. But that’s where the beauty and magic is found.  😉

 

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Sep 18 2016

Weekend Hunger!

Weekend Hunger is about finding an image or two, along with a short writing ( 50+ words) that illustrates and describes your hunger. I’d love to hear what makes you hungry. Submit your own image/images or image/images from Tumblr (with credits) by Friday 5pm PST.  Show me what makes you hungry on a lazy weekend!

 

Harnessed Power

How my heart swells with love and anticipation as you stand stripped before me.

I watch as your hands, with precision, move across your skin with oil making every crease and bulge shimmer for my attention. The power that flows from your movements captivates me. The discipline that has been etched across your frame releases your power with a fluid purposeful intent. You thrive on my attention and take your time knowing this pre-dance before you find yourself in my rope lays the foundation for how I will harness your magnificent power.

I breathe deeply harnessing my own need for the moment.

The need to claw my way into your soul.

 

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Sep 16 2016

e[lust] edition #86 ~ Enjoy!

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Welcome to Elust 86

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #86 Start with the rules, come back October 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

On Self-Objectification

Female Orgasms – Addressing Women’s Sexuality

Migraine – A Sexual Spiritual Explanation

 

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Can You Train a Sub to Orgasm on Command?

Rupert Campbell-Black and me…

 

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Yes I’m a Sexblogger and No I don’t care about your dick

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

 

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

BUTTER FOR LUBE… Salted or Unsalted?
KOTW:Static on the line
Control Queen
Well, That Didn’t Go According to Plan

Writing about Writing

A BDSM Vignette from Two Viewpoints

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Sex Negative

Erotic Fiction

The Cure
sports

Erotic Non-Fiction

CORPORAL PUNISHMENT – with a twist
Iris
A Polyquad Squad Orgasm
Beautiful Birthday Fuck
Purpose of Tasks
Do You Trust Me
The meanings of “good girl”

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

How Long Is Enough
The Virgin. Unlocking Feminine Power.
The Other Day
Communicate! Communicate! Communicate!
addressing doubts one step at a time
How D/s has taught me to stick up for myself

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Against All Odds

Poetry

Where I’m From

 

 

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Sep 14 2016

No, I won’t have Your Baby. Dating at Mid-Life.

It’s important to understand that dating in your mid life years ( 45-65 ) approximately, is a far different adventure and set of expectations than early adulthood.

By midlife, more than likely, you’ve had any children you desired or were surprised with and you’ve made it through the ‘training up’ stage of childhood and hopefully successfully made it through the teen years. And even though children never really leave you ( believe me they don’t …you’ll always be their parent. ) this new time in your life is really glorious to enter. Maturity and wisdom have become great bedtime partners in your life. Now is the time for you to be selfish and enjoy yourself. With great thankfulness you appreciate your freedom.

Dating….That’s very different now. No longer are you looking to build a life with someone. You have built a life and through unexpected changes and  life lessons are comfortable with who you are and have become. Now dating is about finding someone whose life BLENDS well with yours. And together that blending widens the border of both of your lives.

Sexuality….The years of experience of both partners come together in a beautiful adventurous way that explodes in more creativity and freedom. Many barriers and fears have been cast aside. Communication styles have been formed and polished.

Friendship…A solid friendship beyond the sexual chemistry is ideal and gives the relationship traction, forming a loving and supportive partnership. Partners being able to see the future through the same lens becomes a goal.

It’s common for many who find themselves single in midlife to revert back to the style of dating and mentality they had in their 20’s and 30’s. When you were looking to build a life with someone. When all that mattered was hot chemistry because a good ‘fuck’ would solve all your problems. But unless you’re looking for a 20 or 30 something to start over with (which sounds exhausting) you’ll soon find that hot chemistry takes a back seat to lives that truly blend together.

When you understand the stage of life you’re in then maneuvering through the dating world becomes more peaceful.

If you’re in this mid life group… embrace it! It’s truly a glorious time to thrive and become rich in life.

No, I won’t have your baby. (My babies are having babies!)

But I do want our lives woven together in a tapestry that brings peace, passion and excitement to our future.

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Sep 09 2016

Weekend Hunger!

Weekend Hunger is about finding an image or two, along with a short writing ( 50+ words) that illustrates and describes your hunger. I’d love to hear what makes you hungry. Submit your own image/images or image/images from Tumblr (with credits) by Friday 5pm PST.  Show me what makes you hungry on a lazy weekend!

 

Needing Your Breath

Some times there are no words left in my soul. No words at least that I wish to utter from my lips. I need the world to be quiet around me. I need to hear only breathing. Your breathing.

I call and you obediently come and quietly climb the stairs and open the door to the barren narrow attic. You flip the switch that softly illuminates the room from a single hanging bulb in the ceiling. The only other light dimly filters through the sheer curtain hanging from the one window on the farthest wall. There is one single chair but for you no place to sit. Only the scrubbed wooden floor. You undress and fold your clothes, placing them neatly in the corner of the room.

From downstairs I can hear the creaking of your footsteps across the wooden planks. I listen as I hear you move along the floor and settle into your place. Kneeling, back straight, in the middle of the room facing the window. Head down and arms folded across your back.

I walk in and you hear the clicking of my heels against the wood as I walk towards you. You’re not sure of my plans and worry, just a bit when I’m in no mood for words. It’s those times of silence that I require more from you. Pull more from you. Unlock more from us both.

I drop my bag containing rope and grab a bundle of 30ft natural hemp. I stand behind you, my bare thighs pressing against your folded arms.

It’s been a rough week…correction….a rough month!

I unwrap the bundle of rope and drag a strand across your chest to watch the delight of your flesh react to its touch. I gather it in my hand and bring it up to your nostrils to take in its scent.

I kneel behind you and before I begin I pull your head back into me and slip my hand up along your stretched throat.

No words.

Tonight as I work out my demons, I only want to hear you breathe.

Breathe

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Sep 08 2016

Entering Darkness to Crossover.

Stage 4 colon cancer.

3 weeks ago he was sitting up and able to talk. No longer able to eat…only liquids. His body was shutting down and preparing for death.

3 weeks ago his eyes still had a flicker of light shining through them. Even though pain had become as common as each breath he took. He still clung to hope. To life.

He talked of eventually eating again. Gaining his strength back so he could tolerate more treatment. Tolerate more deadly chemicals poured into his body in a hope to buy him more time here on earth. I listened and smiled. Encouraged him to hang on. Even though I could hear death knocking on his soul. I could feel the darkness seeping under the door and making its way through the cracks in the seams of the house. That dark spirituality that holds its own power. It’s own finality. The confidence it exudes knowing it will have the last say in his life.

Today I held his hand. His frail bony long fingered hand and felt what little strength he had wrapping and pressing into mine. With my other hand I stroked his chin and marveled at the beautiful black beard he had grown in the last few weeks. This emancipated man with now hollow eyes, barely able to speak and yet his beard was thriving.

I stroked his forehead gently. No words needed. I knew he could feel my spirit touching his. This young man, twenty years my junior and his journey is coming to an end. I could feel my chest start to tighten as the tears began to moisten my eyes.

Darkness. The mystery of the unknown. What will he find as he crosses over to the other side?

I sat alone in my car trying to hold back the emotions I was feeling that would surely turn me into a sopping mess. I still needed to return to my office and meet the needs of other clients.

I work with vulnerable people. Death is a part of what eventually comes in some cases. Always hanging there, patiently waiting. My heart is touched each time. Sometimes the touch is deeper than others.

We will all enter that darkness when our journey draws to a close. We will leave this world stripped and bare. A shell left behind that once housed our soul.

I still ask why my hearts breaks more for him today. Do I sense that much has been left undone in his life? More to say? More to do?

I can still feel his bony fingers wrapped around my hand and pressing into my palm.

I can still hear his shallow breathing, and see the light slowly dim in his eyes as he enters the darkness.

 

Crossing Over

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Sep 03 2016

Weekend Hunger!

Weekend Hunger is about finding an image or two, along with a short writing ( 50+ words) that illustrates and describes your hunger. I’d love to hear what makes you hungry. Submit your own image/images or image/images from Tumblr (with credits) by Friday 5pm PST.  Show me what makes you hungry on a lazy weekend!

 

The Morning After

 

I walk over and draw open the curtains to let the sun shine into our sanctuary.

His reaction to the light is to bury his face into the darkness of a soft pillow.

I stand at the foot of the bed and slowly start pulling the blankets off from around him.

He has cocooned himself finding timelessness within the darkness.

One more tug and he’s left with only the soft pillow he clings to.

 

“You can’t hide forever darling.” Coaxing him to join the day with me.

 

He rises to a sitting position and continues to shield his face and frame from the illumination of the day.

His mind starting to comprehend the level of deviant pleasure he invoked the night before.

Boundaries he swore he’d never cross evaporated in his lust-filled hunger.

 

I walk closer to him and run one hand along his bare back and down one leg.

 

“Look at me love.”

 

His head turns until one opened eye is exposed toward me.

One corner of his beautiful mouth upturned in a smirk.

I fall for him again with his show of vulnerability and surrender.

 

My mind flashes on his whorish behavior displayed without shame in the late evening hours.

 

I take in the revelation that crosses his face as he remembers his debauchery the morning after.

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